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Geraldine Meyers-Mashamba is Head of Quality Management on the University of the Free State (UFS) South Campus and Treasurer of the UFS Women’s Forum. She is also an endometriosis warrior who now wants to create awareness about this invisible illness.

Opinion article by Mrs Geraldine Meyers-Mashamba, Head of Quality Management (UFS South Campus) and Treasurer of the UFS Women’s Forum.
Endometriosis and/or its accompanying symptoms are perceived by many as an invisible illness; it is often dismissed, misunderstood, and considered exaggerated. Shockingly, very few young people have heard of endometriosis, and what is worse is that millions of women globally suffer from endometriosis, but they are not aware that they have the condition and oftentimes go undiagnosed for many years. 

With March being Endometriosis Awareness Month, I thought it fit to share my experience with peers. Why me, you might ask? Well, I have had endometriosis for the longest of times – stage three endometriosis to be exact – and it has been so much fun (no, I’m lying, it has been absolutely horrific to say the least). 

March is national Endometriosis Awareness Month, and perhaps sharing my most intimate and untold story will create awareness around this chronic disease. So, let’s talk about it. What is this ‘endometriosis’ I’m talking about?

Endometriosis defined

Endometriosis is identified as the second most common gynaecological condition, affecting one in ten females. It is classified as a chronic inflammatory disease in which the lining of the uterus, also known as the endometrium, grows in places where it really shouldn’t. You can read more about the common symptoms of endometriosis at here.

Allow me to take you through my experiences.

The meaning of life with endometriosis

Endometriosis impacts all facets of one’s life. It isn’t just a bad period; it can literally ‘blow up’ your life, causing psychological distress, physical pain, financial constraints, and it has a devastating impact on a woman’s education, professional and personal relationships, and quality of life as a whole. 

What often makes me furious, is that there has been and still is this societal acceptance that having agonising, painful periods are merely part of having a uterus, and that it is totally normal to experience so much pain, which interferes with your daily activities. It is absolutely ludicrous, but unfortunately this myth is very pervasive. 

From a very young age, I normalised the chronic pelvic pain and heavy menstrual flow I was enduring, mainly because I was not taught any different. We have been taught that heavy and painful periods are just a ‘normal part’ of growing up and being female. None of my friends had the same complaints and experience that I had, and some teachers thought that I overexaggerated the horrifically intense pain and discomfort I was feeling. In addition to the heavy period, intense back pain, headaches, and fatigue, I also constantly suffered from constipation and even iron deficiency as a result of the heavy menstrual flow. Not surprisingly, donating blood was not considered an option, as I did not have enough blood to donate. 

For more than 10 years, I was sent from pillar to post, one specialist to the next, each time with a different diagnosis and some prescribing various oral contraceptives for my ‘hormonal imbalances’. Thinking about it now, I bet you cannot name an oral contraceptive that I have not used before. After years of contraceptive use, I started getting anxious, thinking and wondering – with all these contraceptives I have consumed over the years, will I even be able to conceive one day? 

In the year 2020, I refused to continue taking oral contraceptives because of the severe side effects it had on my body. My GP referred me to a gynaecologist, who then diagnosed me with stage three endometriosis. Although a scary discovery at the time, I cannot describe how pleased I was to finally put a name to the illness that paralysed and haunted me most of my life. I felt vindicated!!!

Endometriosis is not experienced in the same way by all women, but personally it impacted me in the following ways:
Physical impact

I would experience chronic pelvic pain coupled with a heavy menstrual flow and back pains that would numb my legs, which at times only left me with about 12 pain-free days in a month (and that was only if I was lucky). The physical pain was ten times that of a normal period and left me weak and tired more times than I can count.

The fatigue was terrible, yet I struggled to sleep at night, and waking up in the morning was a mission. I usually told people that I have insomnia when I looked a bit too tired. And I painfully convinced myself that I had a very high pain threshold, which brings me to the psychological impact that endometriosis has had on my life. 

Psychological and emotional impact 

Before I could put a name to the pain, I used to think that perhaps I am being over-dramatic, perhaps I am even imagining the painful symptoms I have been experiencing; imagine trying to convince yourself that what you are feeling is not really what you are feeling! I constantly questioned myself, and kept wondering – am I normal? Having this chronic disease is emotionally vexing, and in all honesty, I still have days where I find myself hiding my pain and tears behind my smile. 

Endometriosis and its impact on relationships
It is not easy to explain to your partner, friends, and family why you are unable to sit through a social event or gathering when you have a sudden endometriosis flare-up. 

What is even worse and more humiliating, is having to sit your partner down in the initiation phase of your relationship to explain the intricacies of menstrual health, in addition to making them understand that your situation is a bit unique and requires a bit more understanding. It is absolutely nerve-wracking – for some it could mean the loss of a romantic relationship, and for others the establishment of a deeper sense of connection. 

Being the empath that I am, I constantly worry about whether or not my condition is overburdening my loved ones. For this reason, I keep quiet about my pain, I do not mention my suffering, and I hide any tears or discomfort behind a smile. Which is wrong, especially considering the amazing support system I have in place. My family and friends offered me strength when I did not have any, and I am ever grateful for the support they provide.

Financial impact of endometriosis

One cannot talk about the meaning of life with endometriosis and not mention the financial impact that endometriosis can have on your life. Going undiagnosed for many years and going through various specialists to pinpoint the illness, cost my family a fortune. And when the medical aid savings run out, one has no choice but to dig deep into your pockets. The sad reality is that endometriosis is an expensive beast that one has to continue feeding. 

Essentially, endometriosis has decreased my quality of life and overall well-being. But I have managed to lead a semi-normal life with my condition by having a lot of faith and making use of basic self-management solutions, such as the use of the Mirena, which is a hormonal intrauterine device (IUD), taking hot baths to ease the pain, and using heated pads and painkillers.

And although the endometriosis will never be fully gone – since it is incurable – I have learned to live with it.

Take-home message

Endometriosis sufferers do not want your pity; they just need your understanding and compassion. The pain we experience is at times almost the same as having your internal organs wrapped in barbed wire. Can you imagine that? Currently, society and most front-line healthcare providers in many countries are not aware that distressing and life-altering pelvic pain is not normal; this leads to the normalisation and stigmatisation of symptoms and a significant delay in the diagnosis of endometriosis.

As a woman who has lived with this chronic disease – acknowledge the disease, continue to create awareness, and display empathy the next time a colleague, family member, friend, or stranger ‘complains’ about menstrual health-related issues. What appears to be ‘normal’ may just be another overlooked, dismissed, or misunderstood case of endometriosis. 

To all the endometriosis warriors, hopefully my intimate and now told story will create awareness. I urge you to keep fighting; your strength will become contagious, your stories will become inspiring, and your will to go on – even when your body is working against you – will make you victorious. Endometriosis does not define you!

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Gender bias still rife in African Universities
2007-08-03

 

 At the lecture were, from the left: Prof. Magda Fourie (Vice-Rector: Academic Planning), Prof. Amina Mama (Chair: Gender Studies, University of Cape Town), Prof. Engela Pretorius (Vice-Dean: Humanties) and Prof. Letticia Moja (Dean: Faculty of Health Sciences).
Photo: Stephen Collett

Gender bias still rife in African Universities

Women constitute about 30% of student enrolment in African universities, and only about 6% of African professors are women. This is according to the chairperson of Gender Studies at the University of Cape Town, Prof Amina Mama.

Prof Mama was delivering a lecture on the topic “Rethinking African Universities” as part of Women’s Day celebrations at the University of the Free State (UFS) today.

She says the gender profile suggests that the majority of the women who work in African universities are not academics and researchers, but rather the providers of secretarial, cleaning, catering, student welfare and other administrative and support services.

She said that African universities continue to display profound gender bias in their students and staffing profiles and, more significantly, are deeply inequitable in their institutional and intellectual cultures. She said women find it difficult to succeed at universities as they are imbued with patriarchal values and assumptions that affect all aspects of life and learning.

She said that even though African universities have never excluded women, enrolling them presents only the first hurdle in a much longer process.

“The research evidence suggests that once women have found their way into the universities, then gender differentiations continue to arise and to affect the experience and performance of women students in numerous ways. Even within single institutions disparities manifest across the levels of the hierarchy, within and across faculties and disciplines, within and between academic and administrative roles, across generations, and vary with class and social background, marital status, parental status, and probably many more factors besides these”, she said.

She lamented the fact that there is no field of study free of gender inequalities, particularly at postgraduate levels and in the higher ranks of academics. “Although more women study the arts, social sciences and humanities, few make it to professor and their research and creative output remains less”, she said.

Prof Mama said gender gaps as far as employment of women within African universities is concerned are generally wider than in student enrolment. She said although many women are employed in junior administrative and support capacities, there continues to be gross under-representation of women among senior administrative and academic staff. She said this disparity becomes more pronounced as one moves up the ranks.

“South African universities are ahead, but they are not as radically different as their policy rhetoric might suggest. A decade and a half after the end of apartheid only three of the 23 vice-chancellors in the country are women, and women fill fewer than 30% of the senior positions (Deans, Executive Directors and Deputy Vice-Chancellors)”, she said.

She made an observation that highly qualified women accept administrative positions as opposed to academic work, thus ensuring that men continue to dominate the ranks of those defined as ‘great thinkers’ or ‘accomplished researchers’.

“Perhaps women simply make realistic career choices, opting out of academic competition with male colleagues who they can easily perceive to be systematically advantaged, not only within the institution, but also on the personal and domestic fronts, which still see most African women holding the baby, literally and figuratively”, she said

She also touched on sexual harassment and abuse which she said appears to be a commonplace on African campuses. “In contexts where sexual transactions are a pervasive feature of academic life, women who do succeed are unlikely to be perceived as having done so on the basis of merit or hard work, and may be treated with derision and disbelief”, she said.

She, however, said in spite of broader patterns of gender and class inequality in universities, public higher education remains a main route to career advancement and mobility for women in Africa.

“Women’s constrained access has therefore posed a constraint to their pursuit of more equitable and just modes of political, economic and social development, not to mention freedom from direct oppression”, she said.

Prof Mama concluded by saying, “There is a widely held agreement that there is a need to rethink our universities and to ensure that they are transformed into institutions more compatible with the democratic and social justice agendas that are now leading Africa beyond the legacies of dictatorship, conflict and economic crisis, beyond the deep social divisions and inequalities that have characterised our history”.

She said rethinking universities means asking deeper questions about gender relations within them, and taking concerted and effective action to transform these privileged bastions of higher learning so that they can fulfil their pubic mandate and promise instead of lagging behind our steadily improving laws and policies.

Media Release
Issued by: Mangaliso Radebe
Assistant Director: Media Liaison
Tel: 051 401 2828
Cell: 078 460 3320
E-mail: radebemt.stg@ufs.ac.za  
02 August 2007
 

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