FIFTH EDITIONS:
Mindfulness
Anxiety is an emotional state that happens in both our minds and in our bodies.
In our minds, anxiety often presents as worry about the future. This can include ‘what if’ thinking; predictions or fortune telling; and catastrophising.
Physiologically, anxiety can be experienced in the form of tension; feeling on edge; sweaty palms; a racing heart; feeling nauseous; shortness of breath; a reduced or increased appetite; and difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much.
Below are three ways to effectively use ‘mindfulness’ to reduce your anxiety and stress:
1. Healthy body, healthy mind.
2. Focus your mind and attention on the only moment we ever have: the present
3. Practise mindfulness and compassion: Let it RAIN
The well-known mindfulness teacher, Tara Brach, proposes the RAIN approach to mindful
meditation when struggling with difficult emotions or situations. RAIN is an acronym for:
Recognise, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. When meditating (as in step 2 above), you may experience difficult thoughts or feelings, especially when your mind wanders and you become identified with the feeling or thought.
Make room for the experience and allow it to be, just as it is. The poet Rumi said: “Don’t turn away. Keep your gaze on the bandaged place. That’s where the light enters you.” Investigate your experience with the curiosity and openness of a child. Where do you feel this thought or feeling in your body? Are there times you notice it visiting you more often than others? Investigate how your mind responds to this experience. Finally, nurture yourself. Acknowledge that this is difficult. Give yourself some kind and compassionate words.
Kristin Neff, an international promoter of self-compassion, suggests a compassionate mantra for difficult moments. What matters is that it provides you with a sense of hope, support, compassion, and love.
The mantra is: This is a moment of suffering; suffering is part of life. May I give myself the love and kindness I need right now. May I open my heart and give myself the care I need.
Remember that these approaches are not magical solutions and will not necessarily work for everyone in all circumstances. If you, or anyone you know, struggles with severe anxiety or mental-health challenges, please reach out to trained mental-health professionals. You may also use or share these toll-free numbers:
• South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) Suicide Crisis Line: 0800 567 567
• Adcock Ingram Depression and Anxiety Helpline: 0800 70 80 90
• Cipla WhatsApp Chat Line: +27 76 882 2775
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